5 Essential Poses for Every Family Photoshoot

Capturing the unique bond between family members in a photoshoot is all about balance. It’s a combination of guided posing and letting those genuine interactions unfold. After 16 years in doing family photography sessions, I’ve learned there are at least 5 key poses every family session needs to tell a beautiful, cohesive story. Here’s my go-to list for poses that never fail to create memorable images families cherish for years to come.

1. The Classic Family Portrait – Everyone Looking at the Camera

This is the iconic shot every family wants—the one they’ll frame, send to family, and use for holiday cards. I start each session by gathering the entire family in a comfortable arrangement, usually with the parents as an anchor point and the kids grouped around them. Encourage relaxed postures and small smiles, so the result feels natural. This shot captures everyone’s personality and ensures that each member shines. I always try and take a lot of photos here because the little ones are always moving and looking away.

*Tip:* Direct everyone to think about a happy memory or something that makes them laugh—this keeps smiles genuine and eyes bright.

2. Just the Kids – Playful and Sweet

This is where the kids can let loose and showcase their personalities. Start with a posed shot of them standing or sitting together, then quickly move into action shots where they can be themselves. Let them make funny faces, hug each other, or even dance around. Capturing these playful moments brings out their bond and individual quirks. I also love having them tickle or hug to get them to interact with one another.

*Tip:* If kids are feeling shy, ask about their favorite things or play a game. This creates a relaxed vibe and helps capture those infectious, natural smiles. I also recommend having the parents bring their favorite toy and/or stuffed animal… or treats! I am all about bribing!

3. Just the Parents – An Intimate Moment

Amid the chaos, it’s important to capture a few intimate shots of the parents. These photos remind them of the foundation of their family, showcasing the love that brought everyone together. Guide them into a simple embrace or have them stand close, looking at each other or off into the distance. The goal is to create a comfortable, romantic atmosphere that shows their bond without too much posing.

*Tip:* Encourage a bit of movement—walking together hand in hand, or simply talking to each other quietly—so it feels like an authentic moment rather than a posed shot.

4. The Whole Family Having Fun Together

This is where the magic happens! Capture the family laughing, talking, and enjoying one another’s company. To create this atmosphere, prompt them with a fun activity. It might be playing a simple game, a round of “Simon Says,” or even a silly dance. It doesn’t have to be elaborate—just something that gets everyone moving and laughing together.

This candid, natural shot reveals the family’s unique energy and creates some of the most cherished images of the session.

*Tip:* Stay ready to capture spontaneous interactions, whether it’s a child laughing at a parent’s joke or siblings giving each other a playful nudge.

5. Individual Shots of Each Child

Every child has their own distinct personality, and individual portraits capture that essence beautifully. Guide them into simple, comfortable poses and let them show off who they are. You might ask them to stand or sit in a relaxed position, looking straight into the camera or glancing off to the side. These individual portraits are often some of parents’ favorite images because they reflect the kids’ unique traits.

*Tip:* Try incorporating props, like a beloved toy or book, to make the child feel more at ease and add a personal touch to the portrait.

 

Creating Lasting Memories

These five essential poses allow you to tell a comprehensive story of each family, blending posed portraits with candid moments that feel authentic. As a photographer, you’re not just creating pictures—you’re capturing memories families will hold close forever.

For photographers, striking a balance between posed and candid shots is key to capturing the essence of each family. By incorporating these must-have poses, you’ll not only create a variety of beautiful images but also a meaningful experience that families will cherish. Trust me on this!

***If you are needing help planning for your family photoshoot with me, I have put together a very handy guide on what to wear. You can access is here. I also have a handy engagement session pinterest board with outfit ideas as well.